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Online Safety Checklist for BCbabeslist Companions & Clients

This checklist is for British Columbia escorts, companions, massage providers, and clients using BCbabeslist. Use it before you share personal details, send photos, or agree to meet. The goal is simple: protect your privacy, keep communication respectful, and make sure every connection is clearly consensual and safe.

1. Profile & identity safety

• Use a separate email and phone number for companionship, not your work or personal ones.
• Do not post your full legal name, home address, or workplace on your profile or in ads.
• Use non-identifying photos (no ID cards, licence plates, work uniforms, or school logos in view).
• Check your photos for background details that might reveal where you live or work.

2. Messaging and first contact

• Keep early conversations on BCbabeslist so you can mute, block, or report if needed.
• Be clear and polite about what you are looking for (companionship, dinner, events, relaxing non-explicit massage).
• Do not respond to messages that ignore your boundaries or push for explicit details or photos.
• Stop replying if someone becomes aggressive, disrespectful, or tries to guilt you into meeting.

3. What not to share

• Never send photos of government ID, banking cards, or screenshots of financial accounts.
• Do not share full legal name, exact home address, or daily routine with new contacts.
• Avoid sending explicit images or videos; BCbabeslist does not allow explicit content.
• If someone insists on details or images you are not comfortable sharing, end the conversation.

4. Screening & red flags

• Take your time: it is okay to ask basic questions and decline if answers feel off.
• Be cautious if they refuse to share any verifiable information while asking a lot from you.
• Watch for pressure to move off-platform immediately or to meet with no discussion.
• Trust your instincts: if something feels rushed, confusing, or secretive, walk away.

5. Planning an in-person meetup

• Agree on date, time, and general location in advance, in clear, non-explicit language.
• For first meetings, consider public places or locations where you feel more secure.
• Tell a trusted friend your plans and set a check-in time.
• Have a safe way home planned that does not rely on the other person.

6. Money, deposits, and scams

• Be cautious with deposits; avoid sending money to someone you have not screened and verified.
• Never share online banking passwords or one-time codes.
• Watch for suspicious payment requests (gift cards, cryptocurrency to unknown wallets, or third-party accounts that do not match their name or story).
• If a payment request feels wrong or changes at the last minute, stop and reassess.

7. After the meetup

• Check in with the trusted friend you told about your plans.
• Notice how you feel: did they respect your boundaries, time, and payment agreements?
• Block and report any user who threatened you, disrespected your boundaries, or tried to blackmail or scam you.
• Update your own boundaries or screening questions based on what you learned.

BCbabeslist is built for adults seeking respectful companionship in British Columbia. Using this checklist each time you connect helps keep you safer online and supports a community where boundaries, consent, and privacy are always respected.